“For my words and choices
That don’t hurt anybody else,
I will not say “Sorry”—
They’re an expression of myself!”

Too girly or too boyish. Too thin or too fat. Too quiet, too loud. Be ambitious, but don’t hurt feelings. Be inquisitive, but don’t interrupt. Be outspoken, but don’t be bossy. Most of all, be yourself—but be a lady.


What’s a girl to do in a world filled with contradicting gender expectations, aside from saying sorry?


The politeness norms we teach children are often confusing and asymmetrical, changing based on gender—and can have lasting effects. And while everyone should be courteous and accountable for their actions, apologetic language out of context can undermine confidence and perceived capability.


Within the subtle yet beautiful illustrations and powerful rhyme of The Girl Who Said Sorry, developing girls will learn that self-expression and personal choices can be made without apology, and with self-esteem.



Press Release

October 2017

ISBN:  978-0-9937174-8-2

$9.99USD / $10.99CAD  

8” x 8”  

34 pages  

Ages 5-7